When it's a one-way street...part 2

[2thepoint]

oh, CV... the member that 2tp speaks about is Sandi2. She is very helpful and had been a WAW.

I just looked and her last post was on feb 20, but thought you might be interested in what she had to say in it:

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...528#Post2223528

KD - Thanks for sharing that thread. I hadn't seen Sandi's response to the question I asked her and am glad you pointed it out.

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CV - take a look at the thread when you get a chance. The thing that stuck out most for me in Sandi's response is that she said she had to work on her "stuff" in order to get her M back on track. Remember, she was the WAS, just like you.

I think your H has some BIG problems. And they shouldn't be discarded or swept under the rug. However, "we" (i.e. all of us) have a role in our M and as such we also have a role in the demise of our M.

So, I think where KD was taking you was to the place where you can find the courage and will to work on your "stuff". In the DR book it talks about making changes. And when one partner changes, the M changes as a result.

Just something to think about.

PS If you H won't hug you, I will!!

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