I went hiking today. It was nice. Had a great time. When I got back. Different story.
As soon as I walk through the door.
W- why is the password on "my" computer changed?
Me- I changed it. It is my computer now. We bought you a new one 3 months ago.
W- well tell me the new password.
Me- No. I will give you the pictures but you stopped having the right to know everything when you started keeping secrets.
W- I am getting an apartment for myself. I am sick of you.
Me- I'm sorry you feel that way.
(sigh) what now? I was cool and calm. Came in with a great attitude. Even gave her a hug as I said sorry you feel that way. She pulled back of course. I felt it was a good thing to do as my shame was triggered and I wanted to calm her fear.
She has not started packing. She is playing video games with S. I am grilling burgers.
