Just a quick question that I'd really like some help with.
In relation to my previous post - is it a good idea for me to thank my H (and probably in an 'applaud LOUDLY for the positives' way) for attending the parents' party with me for the prom?
Or should I just go down the path of not making too much of a big deal of it in case he feels that I'm getting 'false hope' again?
He is VERY sensitive to the notion that I just don't get that he is done.
So, not sure how to reinforce him on this, but I feel strongly that I need to 'do the right thing' here in order to show him that I appreciate his actions, and work towards making him feel safe to do more of the same in the future.
And please remember, H is a guy who just loves being told how great he is.
But then, how does this fit with 'dropping the rope'?
