I agree with Rick. Would you truly be able to forgive him for cheating on you for years? I know as a LBS you feel you'd be able to forgive for anything, but let me tell you, J and I are piecing and I don't feel so desperate and vulnerable anymore...and the forgiveness isn't coming as easily. I know I thought that if I could just get him back, I wouldn't even think about the past anymore and we could just move forward. It's not that easy. Please remember your worth. Nobody is a perfect spouse, but if he cheated on you like that...don't you think you're worthy of more?

(((Pur))) I would also get more information from the neighbor and stew on it.


M & H 25
T 9
D 7
S 4
Bomb 11/11 Confused about feelings for me.
Bomb 12/11 ILYBNILWY, moved out
2-1-12 We're exclusive & dating each other.
3-4-12 H moved back in.
3-31-12 I deserve better. I'm done