Too Little Too Late.... part 7

[BklynMom]

I may be repeating what has already been said but it doesnt hurt to hear it it twice.

Just dont confront him now, or even this weekend or next week. There is no way for you to be the new calm purg this soon after hearing this. It would be impossible even for Mother Theresa herself. Just sit on the info for a few days and really think about if it makes sense, give it some time and something about your neighbors account might flash as true or you could see a flash indicating that she had confused you and OW. Write a letter to him that you dont send or continue to post frequently to get it out. OR GO TO AN AL ANON MEETING. - saying this kind of stuff out loud in a room really helps you process it.

To me it the story doesnt jive as true, who would kiss the OW in public outside your house, doesnt sound like your H is that blatant a jerk. Also if your H and OW had been having an affair for 3 years I think they would really be together now. From what you have describe they have just had major flirtation with some possible phsycial. For me it just doesnt sound like good intell. If your H and OW were able to keep this a secret for 3 years they wouldnt be making out in broad daylight in front of your house while she was married to a psyhcopath.

Look I have my own supiscions. My H took my D apple picking with POW, POW has given my kids gifts recently. I am dying to know if he this is his girlfriend. One day the truth will come out. I cant force it out of him.

I said to my mother recently I feel like a fool for still praying for my M. I feel like I am a sucker. She said "You are not a fool for standing up for your family".

Purg, you are not a fool, your H is a fool for not trying to figure it out with you.