Do you want to make it or break this weekend? If so, and this is a deal-breaker for you then go for it, but be prepared for what might come.

Think about this, you don't know for sure that this all happened. Not sure why your neighbor thought this was good information to share with you, especially since it was second hand. Allowing neighbors and friends into a difficult marital situation is almost never a good thing, (except us, of course smile ) You never know what their motives are.

If it is true...Do you think he'll tell the truth? Do you think he'll see the error of his ways and come home? What do you want out of this?

Or are you hurt (justified if it's true) and just want to hurt him back?

You're acting from emotion not your logical brain. Step back and think about this. Work through your emotions, sit with the anger for awhile and then see how you feel.

(((P)))


Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss