Onthe verge Purg is correct. I'm in the same boat. First you must consult. L and don't tell H. Secondly u must work on You. What does that mean? Well exercise, look good always , get a life (gAL) . Get a new hair style, talk to people try a new hobby. I know how hard that is to do when you are feeling dizzy and in so much pain. Purg posted the rules follow them. Post here to vent and to get guidance. This takes time. Think about other complaints your H has talked about.
You will learn in time that focusing on his flaws won't help you. You will get support from some bright and wonderful peoPle in here. My W saw a L in July and don't go to court until May. So you also may have time. Leave this up to God.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
