V: thanks for yoir imput. I tend to agree that if i leave this inside, it could always eat away at me. I'm scared if I tell him, and he doesn't apologize or that he tries to defend himself, my heart won't be able to take it.
But is avoidance the best course of action? Or in the effort to move into a better R with H (someday, hopefully) should I lay all my cards out on the table?
I already dealt with the OW realization poorly back in January... But this is finding out that I've been lied to for over 2 years.... Not sure how to approach this one?
Anyone who's had success/failure with this kind of confrontation, advice is greatly appreciated!!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12