Mrbond u got it! Very very unpleasant memories. N purg- I wish those were the triggers I am dealing with.

I remembered a something he told me and suddenly remembered a pix I found of him n OW stating the opposite. Took me 2 mos to realize he lied!
Things have been going really well between us as far as getting along. Today I told him about another trigger and he said, there will be a time, not now, when I can tell you more. WTH??? Tell me more Yoda!!

It was his dads bday today. He took the kids to his moms and I went over after. It was nice. On the drive home,S3 kept asking for him. "where's papi? Where are the other papi's?" I said, your uncles are with your cousins. He asked again for him in bed so I called him n told him S3 missed him.

He got a tattoo shortly after I discovered the affair. Tomorrow he want S3 to go and watch them complete it. I'm not against tattoo! I'm against his because I associate it with him MLC!

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017