Did you find sandi2's rules? One of them is something like "believe none of what they say, half of what they do".
There is a lot of fear, confusion for all of us (both sides) in these situations I think...if I believed everything I have said through this, I would be divorced.
But I didn't, and I am not.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
