I'm a 2 year veteran of this Board, and I wish I could tell you there is a set time limit for the madness, and a predictable outcome, but that just wouldn't be so. It does sound as if a MLC is exactly what H is going through. Someone should be along shortly to give you some recommended reading. Read it. In fact, print it off. Let parts of it become your mantra in the coming days and weeks.
You will find a wonderful group of supportive friends here, who have been-dere-dun-dat. Feel free to come here to rant, cry, crow, whatever. We understand.
