Hi 8, sorry you need this site, but glad you are here.
There are some great threads about MLC on this site. I suggest you find them and read them.

In the meantime, there is no sense that can be made of his actions. What you describe is pretty close to MLC if you believe in that term.

Try not to make sense of it. It'll drive you mad...

Hang in there.

AJ

"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
Put the glass down...
"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."