So are you referring to the language we speak, or the language we like to receive? You're asking about my showing love to him or his showing love to me.
That's not how the site describes it. For example, Words of Affirmation: Actions don’t always speak louder than words. If this is your love language, unsolicited compliments mean the world to you. Hearing the words, “I love you,” are important—hearing the reasons behind that love sends your spirits skyward. Insults can leave you shattered and are not easily forgotten.
I've read my own post 3 times. It does not match the list I recognize as depression. The only thing close is his constantly being tired, but that's attributed to his crappy sleep habits and the reason for the cpap in the first place.