Oh, and mine would be quality time, as described by the site (turn off the tv, put down your fork, look me in the eye, etc.) H is content sleeping through a movie "together."
Oh, just saw this.
Do you really believe your LL is quality time?
Or is it "Acts of service" as described on the site. Such as "pull the weeds, not the flowers" or "don't forget to give S his lunch at school and make sure S brings his books home after school"?