Thanks Rick. I've read that list about N times waiting for my post to be approved, but a reminder is always good. My copy of DR came today, and I'm about 1/4 though a Kindle copy of "Hold On To Your N.U.T.S", I saw recommended on another thread.
Right now, my personal item '0' for the list above is, "Don't throw up while talking to you spouse." It's taking a big effort.
M 42, W 40, S 11, D 9 Together 20 years, married 15 W Dropped Bomb 1/12/2012 I moved (kicked) out 1/27/2012