How would I know that? We have a superficial relationship at best. It's not something he would ever share with me, if he's even aware of it himself.
I am actually asking you to do a little, covert research on him...
I will give you a hint and let you know VERY SPECIFICALLY that this is a communications test for you. I want you to figure out how to find out. I am willing to give you some "help", but I'd like you to try on your own, first. Think about the many ways you could find that information out and what questions you might ask to get that information and use them to gather the intel.
And I do want to know what you find out, because I will relate that to some of the described behaviours you've indicated in your #2224660 post above.
Ah, OK on the LL list. I can work with that, although many people will list LLs as defined in the book, "The 5 Love Language" by Gary Chapman.
That list is:
Words of Affirmation Quality Time Gifts Acts of Service Physical Touch
If you have not read 5LL, would you be able to guess what your H's are and what yours are? There is a web site for the book and other content out there which can describe those stated LLs if you need a better idea of what they entail.
Those as well I will relate to your #2224660 post as well as others. And that, along with the trust challenges, will be used to develop the plan that will hopefully save your M.
Make sense? I think we're almost at the end of discovery here and close to action plans.
