SW your last post was truely touching and a pleasure to read. I can't wait to be in the same mind frame as you...and i feel myself getting there everyday. Although our sitch's are very different - the heartbreak is the same. I know in the end i will be better for all of this regardless of the outcome - and you hit the nail on the head, you can't help someone who won't help themselves.
Through all this i have learned about me and without this i probably wouldn't have.
