Some people bounce right into another relationship soon after getting divorced. Some people don't. If you were in a marriage that you really didn't want to end, then I can see it taking a lot more time than in other situations. I think people sometimes beat themselves up over stuff like this. They think that since others have already gotten involved in another relationship, and they haven't...that somehow there's something wrong with that. There's not. It'll happen when it does.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
