No that isn't the case. I have been divorced for 3.5 years and am not currently dating. I have been busy raising my kids, getting them back to a fairly good place and myself as well.
You are going to end up in a new relationship that will put your marriage to shame. He will treat you with love and respect. You will feel a security in this relationship that you never knew could exist. Don't rush it. Keep working on you and let it happen.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory