You're right. Time to call her Xow. I was thinking of you today and wondering how things were going for you once your H left for his trip. He should be back by now?
I've been too busy with school to worry about Xow. Had a big final this week to study for, and h really helped me out by cleaning, cooking, and taking care of D's needs for the past few days
His mood has been pretty good. The other night he was dancing in the kitchen with D, and smiling and laughing. This was the way H was before all of the summer stuff hit. It made me so happy to see him happy. He seems to have a little peace back inside of him.
I think that I'm making progress, because 2 months ago I wouldn't have been happy for his happiness. I was too angry with him back then to care about his happiness. I feel that this is changing.