She asked if I could get kids from school tomorrow as she has to get a bikini wax done. Nope. Seriously?
Good. You are not the on call babysitter, you're their father.
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Then as she was leaving she said she'd be home in the evening and that I could call her and "we could talk about things." I don't think I'll be making that call. She's welcome to call me... though not sure if I'll answer.
Start making more choices like this, making things with her on your terms. Be busy, busy, busy. I know it's hard to go completely dark with children involved, but, you can still do it. You can ask her to contact you ONLY if it is about the kids or an emergency. Tell her you are super busy, that you have things to do! Go dark and see what happens. She's very reliant upon you and seems to have some things worked out to her advantage.
