What a great conversation! Like I've said before, God puts the messengers in our path only when we are ready to hear it: You never took a walk with her before, but the first time that you do- she opens up about her D.... I don't believe in coincidences!
It's good to hear that she encouraged you to keep going on your commitment to the M (perhaps she felt her first H didn't 'fight' when she walked away.)
And even though I don't know you personally... I agree with your friend's assessment of you
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12