then I have to ask the questions to help draw her out and thus lead the conversation?!?!?!?!?!
Don't ask questions.
I stopped that, it helped. Takes a while for my W to open, so I have had to really work on patience and undivided attention...and she tests me sometimes I swear to see if I have it, and staying consistent...
One of my 180's that I really have taken a liking to...
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm