Wow that sums me up totally! I'd read it before but forgot about it and would never of seen that as controlling behaviour but after reading it again I can completely see it!
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Question, is leading a conversation and asking questions controlling?
Originally Posted By: TSquared2
If you are trying to get movement, a change of mind, a result, then...yes.
(Doesn't "leading a conversation" imply controlling it?)
Yeah I guess it is but when W wants to talk about the R BUT then won't talk about the R in other words she struggles to open up, then I have to ask the questions to help draw her out and thus lead the conversation?!?!?!?!?!