I agree that I did not make the choice of A. But, I have not been meeting her emotional needs. Even if by pure ignorance on how to do it. The difference in male and female...whatever you call it.
It is quite eyeopening as most of the literature I have been reading (DR, Mars - Venus, How to improve your M w/o talking, this site) describe the sitch as text-book. I was oblivious and she has checked out. Her love tank empty.
Should I revisit the issue IYHO?
I am on the no side of the fence for now. I do not like it. But I can NOT control the A.