Indecision and the affair continues (part 3)

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Yep, I'm not overly concerned about having this list ready too urgently. I think a huge issue for me is him making our marriage a priority.

H is on his way home now...sending me a lot of text messages.

I'm pretty sure he's fighting to stay on his fence. I don't think he's at the point of being ready to completely recommit. And, until he is...I can't judge whether or not I'd be willing to try.

My friend was watching Dr. Phil yesterday...he told the wife in an affair situation..."why are you waiting for someone else to decide YOUR life?". That's a great perspective!