Anxiety, boundaries and expectations?

[angel61]

Wow, that is amazing! yes, your H does sound like he is moving out of the tunnel.

As for you, especially when you are feeling unmotivated, just remind yourself that it works both ways. You have to keep on working on yourself as well, knowing that the feeling of love ebbs and flows, but that the decision to love and commit is something that means you will be there through the bad times and good times.

Have your read some books about M? and life and psychology in general? I reommend Scott Peck's "The road less travelled". Its an old book but it does give good insight on how to deal with life's downs.