It is wonderful what you and your family are doing. May be this will be his mom's wake up call. Hey - this is another reason you should check out Al anon, you have been effected by the disease.
The circumstances last night were extreme but I think as time progresses we all see that these crazy times are part of life. 2tp W was deathly ill. If it wasnt this circumstance it would be another, a sick relative, who knows but we can only pray that our WAS see the benefit of being part of a team/family/partnership especially during trying times.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13