Help me understand your outrage now at your wife's cheating when you cheated in your first marriage and on current wife while engaged.

What do you want to do?

Reconcile, then forget about what she's doing now or with whom and work on yourself.

Get a divorce, then forget about what she's doing now or with whom and work on yourself.

Me 57/H 58
M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13

Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
Caroline Myss