I think the key to the confrontation is knowing your own fault in the A. Owning it.
I was doing good. In fact feeling releived to hear some truths. I was getting a reason why she was not in love anymore. It was OM.
It was the sting of her saying I had my own part in the A. If I had been better then...she wouldn't need a OM. At that moment the finger squarely pointed at me. It was real and it hurt. Shame.
