I do agree, I have done all that I could to try and save my M, and I have to make peace with that. I think I will, in time, but not at the moment.
I know in time I will be ok, and in a lot of ways I already am fine, there is just a little more coming to terms that needs to be done.
I still do agree with MWD's principles and think they can work, but no marriage can be saved by one person. Both parties have to be willing and my H wasn't willing.
There are a lot of questions that I have that I need to be ok with not knowing the answers, and that is how life goes sometimes.
I haven't talked to H and I have no desire to. I think it is better this way.
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤