Lower your EXPECTATIONS.

Yes you have some good signs but then you need to keep up with your changes, THAT HAPPY FACE.

Have you ever considered that your wife may have post partom depression?

Does that change what you feel?
Or what you do?

Give her SPACE to work it out.

I would suggest you keep your thread on newcomers going.
Update there with these posts.

You will get more traffic there that here.

Me-70, D37,S36