Hey Everyone! Havent posted in awhile. I am always lurking and reading. Just wanted to vent I guess and kinda update my you all on my life. I have had NO CONTACT with my xh or my son in over 2 years. Havent seen either one of them except for a pic of my son on his facebook page. Dont have email, phone number or anything for my son. I DO however know where he lives (thanks to an old friend on the force), he still lives with his dad. As for xh, I havent seen or talked to him in a looong time. People tell me time to time that they see him and he is totally different STILL. It doesnt bother me. When we were married my xh was a jeans and tshirt guy. From what i hear he dresses in button down shirts and Sweaters. Some friends of ours has actually found it amusing as do I, because I know this is new wife dressing him. lol. whatever. She must be one controlling woman. I hope she keeps him on a leash, good for him. Anway, the reason I am posting is to tell you what happened and still how messed up and angry he is. IN our divorce agreement xh took over a past bill to IRS. It is being pd down by them taking MY refunds because xh doesnt get a refund. He is suppose to be making payments but I had no idea I went and filed my taxes the other day and was wondering what the amount was left owing to the IRS. It kills me that I am the one paying this debt back. My tax preparer told me that I would have to take xh to small claims court to get my part from him. SO to avoid court fees I thought I would just call and work this out and give him the chance to pay his part volunterily. I did NOT want to talk to call him at work and i have no other number for him. So I called. I figured i would just leave him a voice mail to call me. I have no email for him. I left him a message but did not get a return call. so I got the bright idea to call new wife and explain to her and have her pass the word on to xh. I was wrong to do so. She acted very childish and would not tell me anything (which i figured that, so I will try calling the IRS), but I wanted her to know that I did not want to end up in court over this if xh wanted to work dsomething out. She threw a hissy fit. I just hung up. I called xhs work and left him a message with operator (mutual friend). He decided while I was on the phone to talk to me THRU the friend. I dont understand? The man would not put his phone to his ear and carry a five min conversation with me, instead he told his sec/friend what to say. lol I know you all say they stay lost awhile in the fog, BUT I have not contacted this man in anyway, dont want to. I am trying to keep peace because it will just make things worse for me and son. on is already brainwashed by these people. I am beginning to wonder if there will ever be peace for us all. The end conclusion was what I should have done in the first place....I am taking him to court. I tried. Will it ever end?
