Is this cake eating 4

[BklynMom]

Have you looked at the web site No More Mr. Nice Guy. I am obsessed with it right now, describes my H to a tee.

The number one rule for DB is: Do what works. My H does not at all respond to dark/dim only to continuous reassurances that he is da man. Exactly slathered in positives. Even though he is suspicious he likes it.