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[BklynMom]

You have done nothing. My H was giving me major attitude the other day and I was like what the heck did I do? Talked to a DB coach 2 days a ago nd she said I wasnt being nice enough to him. That really bugged me. I mean my H just sent me a preliminary draft of a separation agreement the fact that I dont just kick him in the #$%2 is nice enough of me.

So today I killed him with kindness. Actually went to see a movie he recommended and he seemed to like that I enjoyed it. He gave less attitude to me the more I acted like a Southern Belle and a happy homemaker. I commented on his shoulders getting wider "Your shoulder have gotten so wide, be careful that you dont get too big" He loved that.

For me going dark or dim or even being aloft makes my H annoyed at me, I have to treat him like he is the best man on the planet and then he relaxes. It kind of insane.