I needed clarity. Telling her would not help me at all.
It was only the fact of would I want someone to tell me? You know.
Am I obligated?
I totally agree, no good outcome. It undermines any progress I may have made. I am putting up with more bs than I thought I could or would.
I also realize I am fortunate and many others have a much worse sitch. Maybe mine will get worse but I have to commit to being the better person through it all.
