Also there is this Q. Should I try to contact OM's wife. I can see how it would be right to tell her. I can also see it might destroy her family. And how that would be wrong. I have enough hard evidence that makes W and OM relatiionship an EA at the least.
I'm very new to this, so take my thoughts with a grain of salt... if the 180s and changes are supposed to be for us, to make us better, how does telling the W of the OM help you or make you better??? I'm going through my W having an EA and I thought about this same thing, but every possible outcome I came up with was negative. We need to be more positive in life, not bring more negatives...
M36 W35 S8 S5 M11 T17 ILYB Bomb: 01/25/12 Still living in the same house, sharing the same bed, trying to make it better
What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the Master calls a butterfly."
