Also there is this Q. Should I try to contact OM's wife. I can see how it would be right to tell her. I can also see it might destroy her family. And how that would be wrong. I have enough hard evidence that makes W and OM relatiionship an EA at the least.
NO! NO!! and NO!!!
Unless you REALLY want a divorce ASAP.
It makes you look bad, imho...(yes, I have been and still am tempted, but stop myself).
It will not help, at all.
I will write more later.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
