Another poster to read is sandi2 and her original sitch, IF you want to get a glimpse of what W's side of things might look like....Lord it opened up my eyes and also really helped to bring me to compassion and empathy, and my role in my sitch...
It is also very helpful to keep me from getting in my own way, as I tend to want to fix things ASAP and get on with life.
Good call! I kind of knew all that my W was going through by reading between the lines and listening to her but it gets clouded at times with the 'believe nothing they say and only believe half of what they do'.
Reading Sandi2's posts was very eye opening and although the sitch was different it really helps me understand what my W is going through and really filled in the details and really gave a fuller picture.
Sandi2 if you read this, THANKYOU for being brave enough to post what you did at the start of your journey, it really has helped.
