It's real hard to nail down... When I met her.. she acted perfect... she even ACTED like she liked sex.. we made love all the time. She knew exactly how to reel me in... After about a year the sex started to slow down.. which I expected but down to once a month? After about a year of the once a month "mercy sex" she could tell that I was getting a bit disguntled, then somehow she decided for us that it was time to have a baby... OK I went along with it, thinking I might get more sex and something to really tie us together and be close. Get this... she stopped the birth control, and the sex did not pick up. Still once a month... then she would sit and cry when she got her period somehow implying that I was MY fault she was not getting pregnant... Duh, you have to have sex a little more often if you want to get pregnant.. well eventually she did. After our child was born she turned completely into a differnt person. Now it was harder for me to leave, she knew I was a responsible person and truly love my child. That gave her license to cut loose... she turned verbally abusive, sometimes physically... absolutely no desire. Criticizing everyting I do, accusing me a cheating on her constantly, and turning the smallest things into major arguments... turning my life in hell. A couple years ago I had enough and tried to end it. When we were separated she begged to see me and have sex... I caved, it was the best we ever had...Then she told me about her abuse, and I agreed to get back together for the kids if she would get help. She went 2 times and said she is ok, now I am back to my loveless living hell...
