So in your case it probably is more about sex and less about other marriage issues. I mean it is more about her past abuse than about how she feels about you in other areas.
It's kind of a reverse deal. The more you request sex, the less favorable she feels about you, due to past issues. Is that pretty much the problem as you see it?
It would seem that she would want to get help if she knows that the lack of sex bothers you so much, but again, I probably don't understand. I was never abused and have always enjoyed sex.
