Grmpy is right, patience is a virture and most certainly a requirement... Just wanted to provide some words of encouragement my friend. You are in the right place. Live, breathe, and eat the 37 steps. I wish I had 6 months ago to now and I'm sure I would be in a much better place. The advice provided by the kind souls here is sound, follow the DB principles and hopefully good things will follow in your sitch.
Good luck and keep your chin up!!!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!