They both appear to be very "in love" with each other. More like lust in my opinion. Making plans for a future, living together, etc.
Oh, don't forget how sh!$$y it gets considering the fact that she is in the Navy (not sure if she is reserve or something) and he is Officer, they worked together on deployment and started the relationship over there (can anybody say, "big pile of trouble for H if it gets out").
Definately getting a lawyer and filling him in on the sitch to see what he recommends I do.
Me31 H33 M11 T15 S10, D4 H deploys 01/11 H R&R two weeks 10/11 ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11 homecoming 1/12 pos D 1/13