Well folks, my fight is over. H left his FB open and all the incriminating evidence was there. He is convinced OW is the love of his life and I am sure he wants D over asap so they can get married or move in together. So, I am officially over it. I have absolutely completely detached myself and I no longer have a desire to fight for him or our M.
Aw 31!! ((((())))))) Does it feel better to know for sure? Not to pry, but are his sentiments returned? If not, it could just be a 'fantasy' fog? Again, you sound amazingly strong. In fact, now that 'push has come to shove' you sound even stronger than when you first started posting! Thats a huge accomplishment and I really admire you
If your sure this is your breaking point, so be it, but please don't let him bully you (because that is what he is being) Please get some legal advice. I am not sure if the US army is the same as the Can army, but if you can't afford a lawyer on your own, right now they should be responsible to provide you with help as you are still a spouse of an active duty member.
