So sorry but it explains a lot. Keep coming here as you have just begun finding your real self and you will have to have a co-parenting relationship with this man so might as well try to make it a workable relationship.
Me 57/H 58 M36 S 2.5yrs R 12/13
Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do. I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering. Caroline Myss