This is a really crazy one!! I received a really nice email from my divorce lawyer today. She copied an email that she had received from xh a few days ago while she was away, telling her that she had misinformed me about whose role it was to tell the fund manager about the financial settlement details, and that she owed me at least an apology.
The context of this is that there was a total mix up following the financial settlement about my receiving money owing to me, and my xh was totally unco-operative about releasing information etc, which added at least two months on to the whole process of setting this right.
I had told him very clearly, about a couple of months ago, that it was the trial lawyer, and not my lawyer, who advised me that it was the Court's role to inform the fund manager, and that as he lived and worked on that circuit he might be assumed to know the rules!
I also told him I had no wish to complain to anyone about any of this, but wanted to get on with my life.
Why has he suddenly become my knight in shining armour I wonder?
Fwiw I have noticed, among all the erratic behaviour, a noticeable attempt to see and become more involved in the lives of his children, but all without making any amends, or acknowledging that he might have messed up . . .
So the latest flash and bang is xh as my champion!! My lawyer and I had to laugh about it. She has been doing this for more than 30 years, and never encountered anyone like me XH. Not really a record I wanted, but it is good to know it isn't just me.
