Something I'm very curious about and TBH used to bother me greatly but detachment and time have lessened those feelings.
H will no longer enter my house (except at Christmas) and even will go as far as calling from his car to the house if the girls aren't out there when he comes to pick them up. The door is 20' from the driveway.
He will go to great lengths to avoid seeing me and can't even stand to talk to me on the phone. The only real way he will communicate with me is through email and text.
Through email he will sometimes ask what I think about something he has done. He asks for my opinion or what I think? Granted these things are few and far between but sometimes throw me off a bit although I no longer dwell about their meaning.
Just curious why he wants to know what I think and at the same time can no longer look at me or talk to me face to face? He will literally turn his head away from me, so he doesn't have to look at me. Does anyone else experience this and/or have an explanation or opinion?
Just for background, I haven't talked R with H face to face or brought up anything that would induce guilt (since BD almost 2 1/2 years ago). I am upbeat and smiling whenever there's an encounter and happy to report I don't have to 'act as if' anymore. It's genuine.:)
