Just pick up the book, Divorce Remedy. I am reading this part of the book that said Think Small. Would like to know does these consider a baby step worth celebrating?
We went out with our baby boy last weekend. (one way we keep in contact) and I make some changes to my approach. Previously I was begging etc. Now we just go out bring our boy for side seeing. (did not read the books last week yet but I just decide not to pressurize her anymore but after I read DR, this is part of beginner mind approach right?)
-She bought me tidbits because she know I don't have much money now. -She ask me how is my favor soccer team doing now. -She asked me have I bought my winter wear because I am heading to a business trips.
However on Sunday night, she told me she love the ways we have spend the weekend, nothing but just friend and she hope to remaind this way. I am kind of disappointed after the wonderful weekend we spend.
Her parents keep asking her why she do not want to return back to me till today. Her reply, if she is back, I will be back to what I am in the past. Can anyone advise how should I continue from here?
