Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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Friends, I feel settled and then I freak out.

Hubby and S16 home from ski trip. Talk to S16 and he said his Dad texting the whole time and he read a text from the OW saying "OMG I miss you so much!!!" Why is he such a self centered jerk that my sweet child has to read that.

So, they get home and S16 goes off to sleep over and hubby hauls off the his rented room. He IS NASTY and I think he picked up his GF earlier.

Detach, detach, detach. I know...but is this normal behavior? I know it is MLC stuff but do I just sit by and watch? S16 left to roam around our town while Dad is doing who knows what.

This is the fine print I don't understand how to detach from this. I get it intellectually. They leave and they leave to "explore" the other side, the fraternity lifestyle they left behind, etc...

So, turn a blind eye to this? Don't get upset? I know that is what you are going to say. Am I wrong to be upset. He has shown such poor parenting already this trip and this seems to take the cake. I won't be home for 2 more days.

Thanks y'all