So, should your name be grmpy_weasel?? But I think of we seals as ugly, sneaky creatures..... Monkeys are much more friendly
Are armadillos, raccoons and possums impatient too... I mean, they cant even wait for a car to pass before they run out into the road and get smooshed.
fwiw: I think you and Rick are both admirable for your current choice to respect your M enough not to start another R... If only yall's Ws could now how mic you love and respect them.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
^^^ that's my plan Rick. Today anyway..Lol. I love giving the advice, but I seem to have the patience of a weasel. Weasels are very impatient ya know.
So glad I'm not the only one preaching to myself with comments. Its amazing how much clearer it is to see objectively with other's sitch but not our own...
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms
Are armadillos, raccoons and possums impatient too... I mean, they cant even wait for a car to pass before they run out into the road and get smooshed.
I think you might be on to something there Purg. Hmm, perhaps I can suggest this to one of my interns so they can change the track of their thesis?
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13
This is my new thing I learned today...about weasels. Thanks.
You never know how or when, or if ever your W will look back to you, but I think if you truly love someone you take it as far as you can humanly go. I guess the trick is not to lose yourself in the process, or make sure you use the time well to complete a self audit. It's not easy to know when or if to pull the trigger, and then if you do, are you unknowingly pointing the barrel at yourself..
Look I'm almost a year into this and looking back I think it was worth it to stay with her even with all the BS and hardships. And every time I'm ready to cut the cord with her, she tells me enough about where she is that I say okay I can do this a little longer for you/me/us. It's not easy though. There is always the lure of a new life as a possibility. I am and have been in your shoes for a long time and I stand by that I am glad I didn't end it when it was at end points. Not that guaranties a future R, its just that I would have ended it with out the truth totally playing out and I would have been plaqued with wondering for the rest of my days.
He's probably recovering from Mardi Gras celebrations!
But I'm with Bug, what did you go??
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
